The Life You Save May Be Your Own

DID, knitting, sci-fi, and strong opinions

Crazy =/= Violent, Presidential Edition October 17, 2012

Filed under: Uncategorized — weordmyndum @ 3:28 pm
Tags: , , ,

I thought last night’s debate was great. I admire President Obama for not taking a swing at Mittens; I know I would have. But Obama was back, and it was a beautiful thing.

One thing bugged the hell out of me, though. In response to a question about gun control laws, Obama repeated several times that we need to keep guns out of the hands of people with mental illness. He referenced the recent mass shootings, particularly the one in Aurora. He didn’t say it directly, but the implication was that mentally ill people are dangerous and are more prone to commit gun violence than average people.

I take issue with this.

I grew up around guns. My father was an Army vet and a police officer; my grandfather and all three of my uncles had served in the Marine Corps. The Caisson Song and the Marine Corps Hymn got sung to me as bedtime songs. My uncle taught me to shoot when I was 12, and my family laughed when I said my favorite of his guns to shoot was his Colt .45–it’s a large handgun, and I was a small girl. Even my sister owns a pistol–a pink one. No, I’m not kidding.

I don’t own a gun, and part of that is due to my mental illness. I’m not worried that I would walk into a crowded theater and start shooting at strangers. Aside from martial arts and whacking my sisters when we were kids, I’ve never even hit anyone. I may talk about how much I’d like to strangle certain people, but I would never actually do it. I’m not a violent person.

The only person toward whom I am violent is myself. That’s why I don’t own a gun. I have so many moments of despair where my problems seem insurmountable and my life unsurvivable. Usually they pass, or at least get less urgent. But if I had a gun, it would be way too easy to stick it in my mouth and pull the trigger during one of those moments of despair.

President Obama, please stop conflating mental illness and violent behavior. You’re more likely to be struck by lightning than killed by a schizophrenic. Most people with mental illness would never dream if hurting other people. I know it’s impossible to understand how anyone could take a gun and shoot dozens of people, but just because you don’t understand it doesn’t mean the attacker is mentally ill. You can be sane and still full of hate.

You’re the President. When you stand up in front of this country and put people with mental illness in the same category as mass murderers, you’re continuing the stigma those of us with mental illness have to contend with every day. According to NIMG, approximately 1 in 4 adults is living with mental illness. You called Romney on dismissing 47% of the country, but writing of 25% isn’t much better.

We aren’t violent, Mr. President. Please don’t equate us with mass murderers.


5 Responses to “Crazy =/= Violent, Presidential Edition”

  1. I completely agree.
    And you reason for not owning a firearm is the same as mine. I struggled a lot when I lived with my ex, a former Army medic who owns numerous guns. It helped that I cared about getting him in trouble, so I wouldn’t touch any of his guns.
    But between him and my father (also ex-military), I’m technically comfortable and competent around guns.

    I would never *ever* shoot anyone. I don’t even know if I could do it in self-defense. When I lived with my ex, he showed me a particular handgun that he wanted me to use “if anyone ever breaks in”. Obviously this never happened, but even if it did….the thought terrifies me.

    I hate the assumption that the mentally ill are violent. It’s usually very much the opposite.

  2. However, MEN are in a different category to women when it comes to guns.
    The opposite of anger is depression and yes people with depression and similar things do only turn things on themselves, they are not violent.
    I think he doesn’t know a lot about the tag mental illness, as it covers a HUGE range of not only short term depression to things like personality disorders, behavioural disorders, etc. treatable & untreatable alike. Each person unique with what they have.

    • weordmyndum Says:

      Granted, men are more statistically likely to commit gun violence. Still, the vast majority of people with mental illness, of any gender, aren’t violent.

      You’re right; the President isn’t an expert on mental illness. I wouldn’t expect him to be. But he has speechwriters and advisors who are paid to be experts on what he’s talking about and to make him sound like he knows what he’s talking about. Equating violent criminals and mentally ill people makes him sound like he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. It’s irresponsible and offensive.

  3. Bourbon Says:

    Very well said. xx

  4. Grainne Says:

    Well said. “You can be sane and still full of hate” pretty much sums it right up. xx

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s